Paulie, my father’s friend in Madison, tells meThat after the Army bussed him back to MilwaukeeHaving held onto him for … More
Tag: #FathersandSons
July 8, 2024
My dad would have been 105 years old todayHe died in 2009 at age 89 in a nursing home He … More
Flying My First Kite
We run together in the strong windThe two of us launching my first kiteHe’d made for meCutting and gluing the … More
Life Is Pieces
My father swinging a pickaxe rhythmicallyUp over his head and slamming it downThe point piercing hard red clayBreaking it all … More
Hurting
But everyone disappears, no matter who loves them. — Dave Eggers At 69 his body rememberedThe punchingOne oneTwo one twoThree … More
He Wove Magic
He fought as a flyweight in his Wisconsin college daysSkinny, yes, but a vicious tacticianGrowing up on Kaua‘i, his nickname … More
Lost in Thought
Thinking I don’t feel like anything’s slowing down for meyet, bolting out of a house of wood and stone, gonefrom … More
Tradition
His body was given for me, he thought, kept hearing it overand over while he watched the walk along the … More
New Old Dog (I’m still struggling)
For one, you were a sleight-of-hand magician,and I still haven’t figured out all of the tricks youpulled, a tribute to … More
Christmas Now He’s Gone
It’s blinding, the kind of pain that comes with the rains,up here, this time of year, lots of work for … More
A Guppy’s Dream
My pond’s overrun by guppies again, and at perhaps 2000 gallons, it’s not a small one. . . . a … More
Dream of Life
I’ve had this dream before, variations of it, many times.This morning it was my final dream of the night,so right … More
The Funeral
There is no one who knows a father’s kneebetter than a child who wraps his armsaround that knee and clings to it like … More
A Quick Trip Home
My dad used to have them outside his den. I remember sneaking down there in the dead of night to … More
Phraseology
My dad had a store of useful phrases for any occasion.Most memorable for me was, “I need X like I … More
To Give Again
“To another Valentine’s Day,” the older man said, lifting his pint. The two, sitting side by side, clinked glasses, took … More
Walking Through Downtown Honolulu
With her tousled white hair and shredded clothes, the elderly Japanese woman appears to be someone living on the street. … More
The Astronaut
When I was young, my dad told me he went to the moon on a big rocket ship.He said it was … More
No Turning Back
He wasn’t the type who’d say, This is my old lady. He introduced my mom by her nickname only, never … More
Target
He watched the Buddhist monks practice their archery at Kapiolani Park. They would draw back the bowstring, close their eyes, … More
